It is interesting to note how the handshake evolved. In earlier times, men grasped forearms as a gesture of peace, and also to check for hidden weapons. Over time, the forearm grasp has become a hand grasp. Here are some tips to ensure that your handshake gives a positive message:

1. Initiate the handshake if you are the host. You will demonstrate your professionalism and establish a presence.

2. Always be ready to shake hands. This means leaving your right hand free of food, drinks, bags, files and so on.

3. Offer a firm handshake that is not crushing or limp. A sincere, confident grip conveys confidence and authority.

4. Do not pump another's hand; three times is enough.

5. Do not hold the other person's hand for too long and never try to continue a shake for the duration of an introduction.

6. A palm-on-palm handshake is open and welcoming. A palm offered in a downward position shows dominance. A palm offered in an upward position signifies a submissive nature.

7. Don't grasp the other person's hand between both of yours. It also suggests dominance and may be interpreted as patronising.

8. During the handshake, maintain eye contact until you have determined the colour of the person's eyes.

9. Gender is not a consideration. Hand shaking etiquette applies equally to men and women, especially in the business environment.

10. At all times be considerate of cultural differences, health issues or physical disabilities.

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