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Prepare
for the event - you will be mixing with people
you know well, interacting with new people or both. Give some
thought to conversation starters, topics for discussion and
recall information from previous meetings or events. This
will assist you to interact and converse.
Listen
- as much as, if not more than, you speak. Try to be an active
listener, someone who listens intently; you will be regarded
as an effective communicator (and you're not doing the talking
- you're listening!).
Allow
every speaker to be heard - don't interject,
interrupt or speak over someone else. This skill is most difficult
to employ when the conversation is emotionally-charged. Be
calm and considered in your responses and discussions.
Ask
open-ended questions - this is the way to expand
the discussion. Closed-questions requiring only a 'yes' or
'no' answer do not promote conversation.
Learn
more to broaden your knowledge - read widely,
know current affairs, be involved and lead an active life.
You will be viewed as an interesting and interested person
who has lots to talk about.
Develop
your sense of humour and use it appropriately.
Steer
and build on the conversation - this involves
listening carefully to the responses to expand the discussion
or lead it in another direction.
Know
the topics to include or exclude from a conversation
- prior knowledge about the individuals or company will help
here.
Use
eye contact, facial expressions and body language to
demonstrate your interest and enthusiasm.
Don't
feel the need to constantly correct others'
speech, grammar, etc - this is a sure way to end a conversation.
Try
these tips and your conversations are sure to be interesting
and lively!
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